Everything we possess is transient and temporary in nature. They may disappear in thin air one day. Let that loss become cute and loveable. Do not grieve over such a loss, but think of it as something beautiful; what we lose may not be a total deprivation. It could be a sacrifice or contribution. When we choose to have an optimistic attitude we then can view the world with hopefulness and the loss may become cute and loveable.

恩比愛長。也許婚姻並不是一件浪漫的事情，隨著時間的流逝，在兩個人的內心深處，愛也許會越來越淡，恩卻會越來越濃。牽手相伴的人生，相互之間的感激和報答才是最珍貴的啊！

請相信，寬容的力量！

不單追求主的恩典，活在主裡面的人是最能滿足的人。

日本導演黑澤明在電影《夢》裡，有一段描述：全村的人吹奏音樂、邊遊行邊灑花，歡慶老奶奶的過世，有個老爺爺正要趕去加入慶典行列，他是老奶奶初戀情人，他告訴從外地來的年輕人：「順著大自然生活，死本來就是一件值得喜悅的事。」

         We hope we remember the crabs in the basket in the positive way. Every day we diligently work hard on self-improvement and self-encouragement till we reach the land of excellence.

假如我們天天用心經營自己、學習掌握自我情緒，有一天，一定會有令人驚喜的「自我新發現」－－我的火氣變小了、我不輕易動怒了、我的修養進步了！

希望我們都能記得竹簍中的螃蟹，每天能努力地超越自我、不斷向上攀升，不斷升等。

The most influential impact a person can have on another person is usually by setting an example for everyone who lives or works day to day with that person.

相較於別人的傷心往事，我們....大多數人是否開始懂得惜福呢！