“Rules for a Happy Marriage ”『快樂婚姻的準則』

【英文/無名氏, 中譯/重明】

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Never both be angry at the same time.

夫妻兩人從不同時發怒。

Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

除非房子失火，否則雙方從不大聲呼叫。

If one of you HAS to win an argument, let it be your mate.

如果一方必需堅持爭辯勝利，那就讓對方吧！

If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.

存愛心批評。

Never bring up mistakes of the past.

永不提起以往的過錯。

Neglect the whole world rather than each other.

您可以忽略全世界，但不可冷待對方。

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

入睡前把雙方的爭執化解。

At least once every day try to say one kind

or complimentary thing to your life’s partner.

每天至少一次，稱讚您終身的配偶。

When you have done something wrong,

be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.

當你做錯了事，即時承認，並請求原諒。

It takes two to make a quarrel,

and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.

無雙不成吵，那說話最多的，通常是錯誤的一方。